What kind of person is this that doesn't want to give and not only that he doesn't want others to give either? This person when he is asked for charity doesn't want to seem cheap so he comes up with many "good reasons" why this charity isn't really in need or this person really doesn't deserve charity. Maybe he says the person should go get a job or find some way to support himself other than asking for charity. All of these reasons, although they may in some cases be legitimate, many times are just reasons to cover up his desire not to give any charity. His reasoning though can have a negative impact on others that might otherwise have given to this person or cause. He has no problem voicing his reasons for not contributing charity and this will in turn convince others not to give as well.