Obviously a person needs to introspect before engaging in an argument. They need to ask themselves what are the real reasons he/she wants to engage in this battle? It is also important to seek guidance and advice from an objective third party. Many explain that an additional sign can be used to identify the nature of the argument. This is derived from the structure of the Mishna. The first example of an argument for the sake of Heaven is Hillel and Shammai, these two great sages argued on many fronts throughout the Talmud, the basis of practical Jewish Law. The second example though, of Korach and his assembly, isn't clear, because the other side of this argument (Moshe and Aharon) aren't listed. Korach argued with Moshe but the Mishna seems to indicate that the argument was between him and his followers not with Moshe. The truth is that Korach and his followers really were not at peace with each other. They each had their own reason and motives in their fight against Moshe and were not united. The only thing that united them was their fight against Moshe.

This can be used as a sign for us to identify if the argument you are about to engage in is not for the sake of Heaven. If you notice other people join your fight but each seems to have a different reason for the fight then it usually means the argument is not for the sake of heaven.

May we all dwell among peace and harmony.

Shabbat Shalom,

Heath